Does “turning the other cheek” mean complacency?

Earlier this week members of the First Baptist church in Sutherland Springs, Texas, were gunned down during a typical Sunday morning church service. Devin Patrick Kelley’s rampage claimed at least 26 lives and wounded at least 20 others. The violent act left behind a small-town church of 100 reeling from losing friends, neighbors, and loved ones, as well as the question: What now?

A pastor from a Fort Worth, Texas-area church has his own answer for the afflicted congregation: forgive.

“To refuse to forgive is to insist on drinking the poison you meant for your worst enemy,” Pastor Al Meredith, formerly of Wedgwood Baptist Church, told a radio interviewer. “You always destroy yourself.”

Meredith has insight into what it means to forgive a mass shooter. In 1999, a gunman killed eight members of Meredith’s own congregation, and wounded seven. Meredith has been preaching forgiveness since then.

Meredith’s words reflect a difficult tension when it comes to the aftermath of tragic violence, particularly when that tragic violence occurs within a Christian place of worship: According to the FBI, almost 4 percent of mass shootings between 2000 and 2013 took place in a church. How can or should those affected by tragedy live out one of the most fundamental and radical principles of Christian life — to “turn the other cheek” to offenders — even as they balance righteous anger at those responsible?

Forgiveness can be a politically loaded act

In some cases, forgiveness of offenders has doubled as a political act of resistance. When white supremacist Dylann Roof opened fire on an African-American church in Charleston, South Carolina, killing nine, the families of victims made headlines by forgiving Roof publicly during the trial.

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